Wonder if that has anything to do with the fact that it is February 29, since they only happen once every 4 years, does that mean they feel like they are 4 years long? Anyway, I went to help my friend Sharry, actually SharryLee today. Her husband passed away in July after a short battle with cancer, Sharry is also battling cancer and hers was diagnosed first and she is doing as well as you could expect after chemo, imunotherapy, first a year of IV and she has just recently started a pill form. Anyway, when Rick was in the nursing home and it was becoming pretty obvious that he wasn’t going to beat the odds, Sharry rented an apartment because the house they owned wasn’t handicapped accessible, which really she needed for herself as well as if she was going to bring him home so he could die “at home”. They have had some major issues with the house, from leaking water, to a thermostat the wasn’t working, no heat, freezing, thawing, burst pipes, more water damage, etc. Some of these issues go back several years and some have just happened since Sharry was first diagnosed in June of 2018. Add to that plate the fact that they are the kind of people who “never” throw anything away, her not as bad as him, but neither one are really good about it. Another factor is the fact that he smoked his whole adult life and there is a room upstairs that was his “mancave” which looks like a really large ashtray+everything that he hasn’t given a second thought to keeping versus pitching. The good news in all this is that she has sold the house to one of the men who have been doing some of the “water damage” work, however, she is back at work (seasonal) and she only has tomorrow and next Saturday and Sunday to get her things out of the house. Somethings were moved to the apartment, and everything is out of the basement (because of flooding) but there is still a garage full, one room upstairs, the kitchen, boxes in the dining room (stuff from the basement, etc.) and somethings in the bedroom (not lots but enough). Sharry and I spent the day looking through the ashtray room and honestly, one end of that room looks like he must have dumped his ashtray many, many times and never cleaned it up, added to papers that may or may not be things that can actually be pitched. We spent 4 1/2 hours today, going through papers off the floor, papers in the chairs (still have one to go) papers in a cabinet, what a horrendous mess. John and I are going back tomorrow, one of Sharry’s sisters and her husband will be there. They are going to work on packing up the kitchen, I assume Sharry and I will continue to work in the ashtray and John I assume will pitch things out the window into the almost full dumpster. We will come home with the piano (which is going to Sharry’s niece) and some lawn care equipment. Her other sister and her husband are supposed to come next weekend, but if everyone who can help is not there both days next weekend, she isn’t going to get it done. She can leave things in the garage for a little while, but am not sure how long and I don’t want to even think about how many truck loads to a storage unit it will take to get everything out of the house. Moral of the story is, try to live like you don’t want to have your family members go through your stuff and spend way to many hours pitching your crap that you just didn’t want to throw away. My Mom’s house will be this way when she is gone (or in a memory care unit).
I finished the second puppy love quilt yesterday that is going to my youngest granddaughter’s other grandmother for an animal fundraiser. The first of next week, I want to get a couple more quilts loaded on the frame. I still have 5 to do for guild members and several tops from Jo that when they are finished I will donate. I went off my new fabric diet and ordered 10 yards of 108″ wide backing fabric at slightly over $50 for the 10 yards. I will use it for charity quilts, since 1) I done have a stash of backing fabric, 2) not real thrilled with piecing backings and 3) not going to use my $15.00 a yard fabrics for charity quilts. Will post pictures (including the puppy love) when I get the next bunch of quilts done.
Until the next time, keep calm and QUILT on!